There’s a New Leg Order!


All my life my right side has taken charge.
Need to write something? “I’ll do that!” says Righty!
Swinging a hammer? “I’ll do that!” says Righty!
Kicking a ball? “I’ll do that!” says Righty!

Whether it is doing things with my hands or my feet, my right side has always been the stronger of the two. The disparity has been so great that at times I would stop Righty from automatically taking the lead, and tell Lefty to try. This would always end in tears. Lefty would whine and complain and when forced to try anyway, would perform awkwardly and weakly, leading to anguished wailing, “See? I told you I can’t do it! I suck!”

And I would have liked to reassure Lefty that she didn’t really suck, but… yeahhh, well she kind of did. Usually all I could say was, “good try, kid!” and hand the ball back to Righty who smirked like an older sibling who knew that mom loved her best.

But now it is Righty who is the weak one, at least in the legs. I am now missing half my main calf muscle complex in that leg, and as I am healing up and using the leg more, I can tell that my right leg is now the weakling, considerably so.

I have to give Lefty credit. She could have been lording this over Righty, but instead she’s been a good sister and seems to just want to help out as much as she can. Barely a smirk seen.

It’s still hard on Righty though, such a blow to her pride and identity. She keeps trying to prove she can do what she used to, that the leader’s job is NOT up for grabs. Righty will try and take the first step up a stair still, or lead in a pivoting turn, but then the lack of strength will nearly topple us completely and Lefty will quietly move in front saying “It’s ok. I got this.” I think that just makes Righty more angry.

So now Righty wants us to get to the gym, the pool, into physio. Whatever it will take to reclaim her… uh… righteous… space of being. And she may very well. And Lefty will quietly shuffle back and all will be as it once was.

Unless this little exercise in leading gives Lefty thoughts:
Left behind no more!

(and I didn’t mention monkeys once!!)
Oh, here they are….

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